Befriending: Matt and Diane Hall

Befriending is about an adult developing a supportive relationship with a young person. Meeting frequently and sharing in some common activity, the relationship offers vital support and encouragement to children and young people as they grow up and grapple with everyday issues. Befriending provides companionship for isolated people, the chance to develop a new relationship, and opportunities to participate in social activities. The young people may be referred by social or community workers, education staff, psychologist or concerned relatives who do not want a formal social work intervention.

The befriending service can be summed up as a ‘resourceful friendship’, meaning a friendship with a purpose. Circumstances can sometimes make it difficult for young people to experience the full and prolonged attention of a significant adult for the purpose of listening to them – for hearing what they love, what they hate, what their gifts are, what their relationships are like, what their hopes and dreams are for the future.

Family members, local schools and community projects can access the befriending services for young people that FARE offer to the community.

Parental and family involvement in the befriending process is actively encouraged and is seen as an important factor in identifying and providing the support network for the young person.

The following activities have been key parts of the befriending service offered to young men and women in the Easterhouse area:

• One to one contact with an adult befriender
• Small group outings and residentials – adult and peer befriending
• Access to sports, leisure and skills based activities
• Support with choices related to education, employment, health and relationships.

FARE offer other services – they see befriending as a complement to the organisation’s other services.